Y Thursday, August 24, 2006Y
5:32 PM
as usual , im updating myself from work ... will be hard to do it at home ... as at home , im an " illegal immigrant " , using other's wireless network to get connected ... *lols* ... so here at work , more convenient ...so wats up for me , past few days ... work , don ask , never-ending ... piles and piles of them ... was on MC on monday ... stomach flu ... haha ... but then , after seeing the doctor , i went to catch a movie all by myself ... drove to tampiness mall , where i parked my car ... then bought the tix , for the movie KABHI ALVIDA NAH KEHNA ...
great movie ... there were humour and drama to it ... my eyes were teary at the climax ... was too touched by it ... *smilez*
i will strongly recommend to those who are into hindi movies ... hehe , u jus have got the withstand being seated for about 3 hours 15mins ... there is no intermission , where u can actually go out for about 10 mins , and continue ... this is from the start to the end of movie ... *giggles*
after the movie , as i drove back home .. made me relate the movie to reality if life ... Question was : Are there such husbands/wifes who would forgive their respective spouses for an affair that caused a wrecked marraige ?? After which , stay as frens and still stay in touch ?? Would a normal person be doing this ?? And at the same time , *for the ladies* have that much courage to face the 3rd party , advised her and sincerely asked her to go find her true love *true love being ur ex-husband* ??
asked myself all these ... what can i conclude ?? i have no answers to all the Qs above ... i guess if my husband is to have an affair , thats the end of the marriage i suppose ... my trust is broken and i have been hurt deeply ... will i forgive him ?? i guess i will , but time will explain ... it wont be an immediate forgiveness ... and for me to face the 3rd party , i think i wont want to ... she is the cause my broken marriage ... i will definitely hate her ... but will i forgive her , i don have the answer ... its really going to be hard ...
so what do u all think ?? i guess everyone has their own preceptions on what's above ... but then , its jus a movie ... u don have to be too obsessed ... indeed what happened in the movie , is happening in reality ... but the way the couples in the movie handled the situtation , is hard to be happening in reality ... yeah life moves on ... maybe being frens still with ex-husbands/wifes can happen ... staying in touch for the sake of the children ... *these go to the ladies* but to actually face the 3rd party and asking her to pursue her true love *ur ex-husbands* , i don think any lady can do that ... maybe not yet happening in reality rite ...
guess , i will hault here ... have to stop thinking whats above ... if its bound to happen in my later future , i will jus pray to ALLAH , to keep me strong ... hope he grant me stronger faith , patience and a better life for what's bad ... Insya-allah ...
shall be back soon ... adious .... *smilez*
