so wats up for me , past few days ... work , don ask , never-ending ... piles and piles of them ... was on MC on monday ... stomach flu ... haha ... but then , after seeing the doctor , i went to catch a movie all by myself ... drove to tampiness mall , where i parked my car ... then bought the tix , for the movie KABHI ALVIDA NAH KEHNA ...
great movie ... there were humour and drama to it ... my eyes were teary at the climax ... was too touched by it ... *smilez*
i will strongly recommend to those who are into hindi movies ... hehe , u jus have got the withstand being seated for about 3 hours 15mins ... there is no intermission , where u can actually go out for about 10 mins , and continue ... this is from the start to the end of movie ... *giggles*
after the movie , as i drove back home .. made me relate the movie to reality if life ... Question was : Are there such husbands/wifes who would forgive their respective spouses for an affair that caused a wrecked marraige ?? After which , stay as frens and still stay in touch ?? Would a normal person be doing this ?? And at the same time , *for the ladies* have that much courage to face the 3rd party , advised her and sincerely asked her to go find her true love *true love being ur ex-husband* ??
asked myself all these ... what can i conclude ?? i have no answers to all the Qs above ... i guess if my husband is to have an affair , thats the end of the marriage i suppose ... my trust is broken and i have been hurt deeply ... will i forgive him ?? i guess i will , but time will explain ... it wont be an immediate forgiveness ... and for me to face the 3rd party , i think i wont want to ... she is the cause my broken marriage ... i will definitely hate her ... but will i forgive her , i don have the answer ... its really going to be hard ...
so what do u all think ?? i guess everyone has their own preceptions on what's above ... but then , its jus a movie ... u don have to be too obsessed ... indeed what happened in the movie , is happening in reality ... but the way the couples in the movie handled the situtation , is hard to be happening in reality ... yeah life moves on ... maybe being frens still with ex-husbands/wifes can happen ... staying in touch for the sake of the children ... *these go to the ladies* but to actually face the 3rd party and asking her to pursue her true love *ur ex-husbands* , i don think any lady can do that ... maybe not yet happening in reality rite ...
guess , i will hault here ... have to stop thinking whats above ... if its bound to happen in my later future , i will jus pray to ALLAH , to keep me strong ... hope he grant me stronger faith , patience and a better life for what's bad ... Insya-allah ...
shall be back soon ... adious .... *smilez*
still fickle on what to wear for the function ... have to decide soon ... its jus 2 days away ... *urrgghhh* ...
am counting to the days left for Sept 1st ... its going to be a memorable day *hoping* for me , beau , best bud & fiancee .. its to celebrate beau's and best bud's fiancee bdays ... their bdays are jus one day apart , beau is Aug 30th and his is Aug 31st *Merdeka JACK* ... *giggles* ... so all of us will be on leave on tat day .. but there's a lot to prepare ... these will be done by us ladies ... as there will be a supricse for them ...
place for dinner has been set to BALADI LEBANESE CUISINE @ Arab street ... seen the ambience of the place ... nice and soothing ... great place for a celebration ... hope the food will be jus as nice ... have to meet up with best bud and check on the place ... and make the necessary bookings and stuffs ... *oopps* so much yet to be done ... cake hunting , new clothes to wear on the day , etc ... *idah , we really have to meet up soon .. its jus 2 weeks away , and i can bet , time flies like a rocket*
i still have no idea for the prezzie ... i seriously need some help !! gifts for men , are always the hardest ... im already pressing my brains hard , squeezing out all the jelly , but still nothing crossed my mind ... *sigh* ... every year i will in this state of frustration ...
in any case if u peeps out there have any idea , pls do tag me ... at least i can note them down , in a list of choices , hopefully one is choosen ... so pls help advise ...
putting today's update to a hault ... shall be back wit more ... *smilez* got to get back to work ... work and work and work ... never-ending work .... lalalalallllalala
i have been thinking on having a song on my blog ... *smilez* and i found the url where i can do that ... *to kak lia , thanks yar* so have been changing my blog's song since last week ... the latest is now that ure hearing ... hhaa ... there will be regular changes to the song ... so enjoy aight , as much as im enjoying changing them ... *winkz*
here is the cool url : www.iwebmusic.com ... there are whole loads of songs to choose from ... like malay and english ... u can browse both thru song titles and the artist ... *winkz* ... love this to the max ...
guess i will hault here yet again ... will come back to blog on Aug 5th .. the whole thingy , along wit the pics ... haha ... so wait up aight ... ciaaaoooozzzz *smoooched*
*every HUMAN is free to feel and think in their own way ...*
Jodoh in HIS hands ... hmmm... hw true is that ?? ... is it coz we are told as such ... or we're taught as such ... or we haf been made to believe as such ....??? *thinking* so what do ya'all think ?? any comments to the above ..
For me as for wat i know is , i shall put in the effort in all i'm doing , will be doing and shall be doing then i pray tat it will all work fine throughout ... and all the effort gets rewarded ....
if it doesnt work fine , i will and shall keep on trying till succeess is achieved ... insyallah , it will , keep the faith within me .... and whether its in HIS hands or his decesion m, its not my place to tink abt it , as We only REDHA after the effort tat have been put in ...
so listen up , there are things which are not for us to think , as Life is confusing and pressurising enuf ... but yet still LIFE AINT COMPLICATED ... complication is only created by us humans like when we asked too much questions and think too much , followed by worrying too much lastly wondering too much ... so jus let the thinking be done by others who likes to do it ....decisions be made by HIM (ALLAH) as we lead our life to the max possible as a muslim ... PREPARATIONs are what we need to focus on more ... *smilez*
Aug 2nd , meet up with best bud ... apologies she had to wait for me almost half n hour ... well i was caught up in traffic ... *winkz , sorry ah babe* ... we decided to go to changi village for dinner ... we were singing and talking craps in the car .... *smilez , fun!* finally reach the carpark ... lucky me , its not a busy nite , so there were many slots available ... so there i took my pick ... haha ... after i had parked the car , out of the blue , guys in white appreared ... *abg2 parking* ... they were going round the carpark checking on the cars which did not display any coupons ...
i had think i wanted to display 1 and play around with the timings on the coupon ... but to avoid from getting myself into trouble and eventually had to pay a fine , i placed 2 brand new coupons ... we then moved for dinner ... *there were about 3 guys , rite idah* we had nasi ayam penyek at the famous stall SRI BISTARI ... *lols , ingat seh aku nama kedai* well , a regular me ! i did eat much , jus a spoonful from idah's share ... *on a diet* soon after , time to head home ...
*nie part lah yang lepak to the max , lols* as we walked to the car , i saw a piece of white paper on my car ... hell i shouted to idah " idah , darn those guys , im fined " ... then as we reached closer to the car , it was a note actually ... *darn this is farny !!* the note says " ZACK - his cell # .. Hi there , Gimme a kol ya ... " me and idah was laughing histerically to the note ... on the fact , the name ZACK ... if it was to be JACK , both of us would be laughing till us tearing ... me then told idah , could i leave a note back to him , saying " Hey , there's 2 here , which one u're refering to ? " hahah ... *lols, giggles* idah asked me to call up , but hell NAH , i wont ... this're jus old grand's tricks to hook a girl ...
what a nite to remember , rite idah ... thinking about it , i cant help laughing .. *smilez* ... so idah , up for what we've discussed ?? we both call in , and lets play the game with him ... *grins* ... kidding aight toots , im not interested ! ... if he is KEANU , i DEFINITELY WOULD LOVE TO ... flashback to ur heading display " KEANU REEVES FEVER ... " till the next story for blogging ... *winkz*
Feeling that it’s time for a change in her life, Dr. Kate Forster (SANDRA BULLOCK) leaves the suburban Illinois locale where she completed her residency and takes a job at a busy Chicago hospital. One thing she is reluctant to leave behind is the uniquely beautiful house she’s been renting – a spacious and artfully designed refuge with large windows that overlook a placid lake. It’s a place in which she felt her true self. It is a winter morning in 2006.
On her way to the city, Kate leaves a note in the mailbox for house’s next tenant, asking him to forward her mail and noting that the inexplicable painted paw prints he might notice by the front door were there when she moved in. But when the next tenant arrives, he sees a much different picture. Alex Wyler (KEANU REEVES), a talented but frustrated architect working at a nearby construction site, finds the lake house badly neglected: dusty, dirty and overgrown with weeds. And no sign of paw prints anywhere. The house has special meaning for Alex. In a happier time it was built by his estranged father (CHRISTOPHER PLUMMER), a renowned architect who allowed his professional acclaim to grow at the expense of his family life.
Alex feels a sense of peace here now and commits to restoring the property to its original beauty. He disregards Kate’s note until, days later, while painting the weather-beaten jetty he sees a stray dog run across the fresh paint and then towards the entrance of the house, leaving paw prints exactly where she said they’d be.Baffled, Alex writes back, saying that the house had no occupant before him and wondering how she could have known about the dog; while Kate, who just left it a week ago, imagines he is playing some kind of joke on her and fires back a reply.
"Just for argument’s sake,
what day is it there? April 14, 2004.
No, she says. It’s April 14, 2006."
The same day, two years apart. Can this be happening?As Kate and Alex continue to correspond through the lake house’s mailbox they confirm that they are, incredibly, impossibly, living two years apart, and each at a time in their lives when they are struggling with past disappointments and trying to make a new start. Sharing this unusual bond, they reveal more of themselves to one another with each passing week – their secrets, their doubts and dreams, until they find themselves falling in love.
Determined to bridge the distance between them at last and unravel the mystery behind their extraordinary connection, they tempt fate by arranging to meet. But, by trying to join their two separate worlds, they could risk losing each other forever.
.:][:. above is the full sinopsis of the movie THE LAKE HOUSE ... i catched the movie with best bud yesterday nite ... showtime @ 920Pm , GV TM ... [ before this , a colleague told me the rough idea on how the story was all about ... instantly i fell in love with the storyline and desperately wanted to catch it ... ] so there we were , in the cinema anxiously waiting for the show to start ... *smilez*
as the show began , both of us was drooling over KEANU ... though he had put on weight , but still he looked so handsome ... *giggles* ... continued watching the movie , attentively following every bit of the scenes , till we both arrived at this scene ~ where Alex told Kate to talk a walk with him .. and he left a map in the mailbox with the places numbered for Kate's reference ... *awww* ... so they took the walk together , but jus in 2 different time frames ... till Kate finally arrive at this place , and she saw something which shocked her ... there were scribbles on the wall of the house , in black spray paint where Alex wrote " Kate , i wish we had really took this walk together " *awww , wide smile* both of us couldnt stop saying " sweet rite ! gosh ! "
the farny scenes were also great , at the point , where both Alex and Kate realise they r actually interacting to each other for real ... and both of them happen to be at the Lake House infront of the mail box , and there they were exchanging notes ... *laugh out loud* scenes again , where both of them were talking to each other at the park and the hospital cafe , and also the part where they finally decided to meet up for the first time , [ Kate was in the bathroom whereas Alex was at the Lake House ] all separated by time ... that was farny ... *giggles*
there's more to all sweet things in which Alex did for Kate .. like planting the tree in front of Kate's new apartment in yr 2006 ... [ " don forget , Alex is in yr 2004 , so see the willingness and huge effort put in " ] Alex went to the extent , upon knowing Kate missed the trees at the Lake House ...
*big smile* .. both of us were really enjoying ourselves ... so lets get to the climax of the movie ... on Valentine's Day morning , Kate was at this park with her mum ... and an accident occured , involving a man ... but she couldnt save him , he died ... the man was Alex ... but Kate didnt know the fact ... [ to excite this more , Alex knew how Kate looked like , when he went to receive a book for Kate at the train station ... Alex knowing Kate's bf at that point of time , going to a party organised to celebrate Kate's bday ... best part they kissed ... but sad though , Kate didnt remember anything about Alex ]
came to this scene where Kate was sad and dissapointed when Alex didnt show up on their first date ... she didnt know , Alex had died at that point of time ... so she sent a note to Alex to stop everything , they would never have the chance to meet up , its impossible ... but Alex told her to have faith and don give up on him ... but guess due to the huge dissapointment , she really stopped sending notes and even going back to the Lake House ... so life moves on for Kate ... *teary eyes*
*almost ending* in yr 2008 ( February 14th Valentine's Day ) , Kate were at this house , she bought with her bf ... she had engage the professional architect to renovate the house ... so as Kate was about to leave , she saw this frame which had the sketch of the Lake House ... Kate then asked the guy (Alex's little bro) , who drew that ? ... he then said its by his bro Alex Wyler ... Kate shockingly asked how can she meet up with Alex ... unfortunately , he said his bro (Alex) had died on the same day ... instantly triggered Kate why Alex didnt turn up on their first date , and who she had saved during the accident ... Kate rushed off to the Lake House and left a note for Alex , hoping she would change their destiny .. she explain the situation and told him not to look for her on that day , and jus stay where he were ... finally expressing her feelings for him and she had loved him dearly ... she also told Alex to jus wait finally asked him to , on the same date February 14th Valentine's Day , yr 2008 looked her up at the Lake House , she's there ... *flashback , Alex was holding the note , standing by the side road , where he actually saw Kate sitting with her mum at the park ... ~ actually in the beginning Alex crossed to meet Kate , where he was hit by a bus and died ... ~ but upon receiving Kate's note at that time , he hault there * now back to where Kate was , kneeling down in front of the mail box ... she cried as nothing happened showing the signs that Alex received her note ... *teary eyes again* unexpectedly when she was crying over the fact she lost Alex , there a car stopped beside hers ... there Alex came out and walked towards her ... *awww* Kate finally said " You waited ! " ... instantly they hugged and fell into a long passionate kiss ... *teary eyes yet again* ...
thats the end of the most incredible romantic story we both enjoyed ... best bud and me cant stop talking about it even til today ... still not over with the mood ... so i hope u have enjoyed reading all of the above as much as i have enjoyed watching the movie .. for those who have not wacthed , i recommend highly to go and catch this ... u wont be going home with regrets ... *idah this is for u , enjoy reading ...* to be continued ... .:][:.